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Weddings, Engagements, and Rings: What You Ought to Know Before Saying ‘I DO’

A mutual promise to get married to one another – that is the very essence of an engagement.  Likewise, the term fiancé comes from the French verb se fier, which is the equivalent of the Latin word fidere (to trust).  This is how the concept of engagement evolved.

Prior to the wedding ceremony, a guy drops on one knee to ask for his girlfriend’s hand in marriage.  Though it doesn’t necessarily mean that they will get married right after their engagement.  In fact, there are a lot of couples who prolong their engagement until the time is right to get married.  It all depends on the couple, as they need plenty of time to think about pre- and post-wedding preparations.

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But, as the girlfriend agrees to marry her boyfriend, an engagement party is thrown in honor of the couple.

But how exactly did engagement parties come about?

Dating back to Greek practices, a couple’s engagement was not even welcomed with merrymaking. Rather, it was treated like a business transaction, which required both families to  enter an oral or a written agreement. This means that the father intends to betroth his daughter to the groom. And, the bride-to-be doesn’t even have to know about it.

But modern times changed the approach. Engagement parties are real special occasions and announced as such so that whoever is invited may bring gifts for the couple. At the same time, select members of the couples’ families or closest circle of friends take turn in giving speeches, wishing them well for a life of true love and togetherness. Lastly, a toast is given in honor  of the newly engaged couple.

Of course, in today’s setup, engagement parties are often decided by the couple themselves. Some even go as far as hosting their own.

On the other hand, there are couples who choose not to have, much less host, engagement parties, as these are not mandatory to getting married. And, of course, by reason of economics, some couples choose to save money for the wedding itself and the future.

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Here’s more!

Traditionally, the mothers of the soon to be married couple would meet before the ceremony to discuss and set the wedding date.

As a common practice, it is the bride’s parents who need to host the ceremony. The husband-to-be would send beautiful flowers to his fiancee in the morning of the engagement day; and, of course send a more classical bunch of flowers to the mother of the bride.

Generally, as far as spending for the ceremony is concerned, the bride’s family would offer to host the celebrations while the groom’s family or the groom himself would offer to give bride-to-be the most show-stopping engagement ring.

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Of Romance and Engagements: How to Tell if She’s the One

So, the two of you have been dating for quite some time now. And, you can’t stand being away from each other – not even for a minute. We totally get it! There is no doubt in your mind – and in ours – that to seal the deal is the ultimate solution.  Get down on one knee already, chap.

Your imagination could hardly contain what you feel inside. Because, you can almost see how things would turn out. The atmosphere will be symphonic as you pop the question. Of course, you hope with all your heart that she smiles and gives you her hand to slip the ring onto. That will make a good story to tell your children, right?

It’s alright to feel nervous before asking for your girlfriend’s hand in marriage. It’s a moment which you can never recreate, after all. So, it is best that you do it with aplomb.

Still feeling a little weak-kneed? Don’t worry, chap. We got your back. Let us help you figure out how ready you really are.

 

You know you’re ready to propose when you openly discuss finances with your girlfriend.

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You love each other and there is no question about that. But, when it comes to relationships, money matters are just as serious as the bond between you two.

Even if you’re both filthy rich, you should be in the know of both your financial situations. Money matters like debt or being cash-strapped could be a source of contention in your marriage.

Okay, you really don’t need to know each other’s salaries – right down to the dime. But, it would make your union more meaningful and trusting if you’re open about your savings, at the very least.

 

…when you share ALL your milestones with her.

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That cannot-wait-to-tell-her-about-it feeling is a surefire way of gauging your readiness to propose. Desiring to tell her how your boss praised you for all your hard work? Wanting to call her up as soon as you get a raise? These thoughts tickle you pink as you go about your office duties or while you drive home.

They send tingling sensations down your spine and that’s good! You know why? Because, you are open to sharing with her ALL that is important to you and to the family that you will raise together.

 

…when you have had talks concerning the future.

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Have you ever talked about going on a vacation together this summer? What about your plans for the next ten years?

If you and your girlfriend speak naturally and sincerely about your future together, then that clearly gives you the green light to propose! Just the thought of spending the rest of your lives together sends you to the moon. Better think about what ring to surprise her with.

 

…when she is FULLY AWARE of ALL your ambitions.

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We all have ambitions in life – from quitting smoking and liquor to pursuing a graduate degree, for instance.

If your aspirations do not pose any form of conflict with those of your girlfriend, then, chap, that is another sign that you are ready to put a ring on her finger. And wow, have we got the most intricately-designed rings guaranteed to blow her away. Check them out here.

Whether you’re planning to invest your savings to start your own business or thinking about killing time in the Sahara Desert, it’s best to let your girlfriend in so that she knows what she will get herself into right after the wedding.

 

…when your friends cheer you on and push you towards the wedding zone.

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Let’s face it, my man. We’ve gotten to know a few women whom our friends do not approve of. Whether the reasons were made known to you or not, your relationship with your girlfriend and your guy friends hang in a critical balance when they don’t get along. That’s going to put on a strain on you as well.

So, a strong indication of your readiness to propose is this – that the woman you are currently with is THE woman you strongly feel you can grow old with and, at the same time, is in healthy terms with all your friends.

 

…when you know in your heart that she will say YES.

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This may seem obvious, especially since you have been a couple for a long time.

Here’s the deal – if you feel that the chance of her accepting your proposal is a bit off the radar, then it’s best to ask at another time. Don’t try to steady the ups-and-downs of your relationship by popping the question. If you propose just to fix some things, then, chances are, she might turn you down. Or, she might accept but regret having done so later on. We don’t want you to get your marriage-ready heart broken so be careful and pay attention to your proposal’s timing.

Simply put, ask for her hand in marriage when you know you’re both on the same page about spending your lives together and NOT when you’re trying to save a relationship that has gone bad.

 

…when she brings up House of Diamonds and other bridal things and you’re okay with it.

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And why not? You yourself ARE getting ready to propose to her! It would be truly helpful if she drops hints on what kind of ring she would like to see on her finger.

Is it a diamond ring she dreams of? How about a birthstone engagement ring? How many stones do you think she is into? What color band would she prefer? How radiant-looking  will she be on your wedding day?

These things don’t bother you, no sir. Not one bit.  In fact, you welcome the hints with a song in your heart, as you endeavor nothing but her happiness and your anticipation of your life as a married couple.

A fine gentleman such as yourself shouldn’t feel nervous about asking your lady love if she is ready for marriage.

Take a deep breath, gather your thoughts, pick the best time to ask, and drop on one knee. We guarantee that it will be one of the sweetest things you two will experience and more.

Best of luck!

 

5 extraordinary engagement ring ideas

Proposing comes with many different ideas and suggestions. Everyone is different in their thinking, and, of course, this is what makes us human after all. So do you have plans to pop the big questions? Are you going to buy a diamond ring, or maybe you want to think about something more memorable?
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A Brief History Of The Engagement Ring

A ring on her finger occupies the mind of most women at some stage in their life. This is not only because we desire something beautiful to display to others, but also because of what it symbolises today, the love of another. The sheer romantic notion that somebody wants to spend the rest of their life with you, only you! and the declaration of this to the world unveiled through the uniqueness of that chosen ring.

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